充溢在人潮里，我们会有意识地选择同流合污，由于可以节约气力，脚踏两船，所以长此以往就会习气说“可以，好的”这些话，只是人云亦云几句，没有本身的设法主意，后来就被沉没在人海里。Overflowing in the crowd, we will consciously choose to join forces. Because we can save energy and use two boats, we will get used to saying "yes, okay" in the long run. It's just a few words, without our own ideas. Was sunk in a sea of people. 投身于生活的海潮里，我无时无刻不在面对着各类巨细应战，也在赓续提示本身有说不的权力，由于稍不留心，我就会沉湎在人云亦云的人流里，所以时辰预备着可以勇敢做本身。Throwing into the tide of life, I face all kinds of big and small challenges all the time, and I continue to remind myself that I have the right to say no. Because I don’t pay attention, I will be stuck in the flow of people, so I’m ready to do so. Be brave to be yourself. 大学毕业后，我一会儿被推到了风口浪尖，面对择业的压力，处于人生的转角处，我渺茫了，不晓得该去往哪里。
还有亲戚同伙的过份存眷，都邑让我措手不及。After graduating from university, I was pushed to the forefront of the storm for a while. Faced with the pressure of choosing a career, I was at the corner of my life. I was lost and I didn't know where to go. There is also the excessive attention of relatives and associates, which caught me off guard. 我晓得他们也是对我的关怀，然则无形之中也会将我束缚住，他们的人多口杂，畅所欲言，都在说着各自的设法主意，计划着我的人生，我是一个活生生的人，不是一盆花花草草，任他们玩弄和修剪，被他们放置在既定的人生轨道上。 我对他们表清楚明了本身的立场，我的人生我做主，我会听取他们的定见，然则怎样做，还是要我本身决意。亲朋们感觉我很固执，还搬出来经验之谈，“不听老人言，吃亏在眼前”。
最初还美其名曰说了句都是为我好之类的话，我晓得是为我好，然则我接管不了如许的观念。 我们都要像小马过河一样，去本身淌过河，才干晓得深浅，所以只要本身履历了，才干晓得生活的千般味道。 晓得本身不要甚么，才干苏醒地在世。我身旁有许多人在诉苦说：“我不想如许，如许无聊极了，我想要那样”，后来没过几天，又发生了转变，说着不过如此的话，我感觉他们的共通的地方就是不晓得本身在干甚么，一味地感觉去接管，没有想过本身真正憎恶的是甚么，只要晓得本身不要甚么，而且尽可能防止，才干更好地计划本身的人生，只要晓得本身不要甚么，我们才干苏醒地在世。There are many people beside me complaining: "I don't want to be like this, it's so boring, I want to be like that." Then a few days later, there was a change again. But saying that, I feel that they have something in common. I just don’t know what I’m doing, I just feel I’m taking over, I’ve never thought about what I really hate. As long as I know what I don’t want, and prevent it as much as possible, we can plan my life better, as long as I know what I don’t want. We are capable of being alive again. 当他人给你灌注贯注一种本身不认同的观念时，本身可以选择不接管，没必要步步让步，冤枉求全；当你明白憎恶吃甚么菜时，本身可以选择不妥协，没必要逢迎民众，损失自我。
有的人会感觉这是小题大做，然则对我来说是何等的美妙，由于可以伸展本身的魂魄，在本身不认同，不喜欢的事物眼前，这都是神圣不可侵犯的，都是我们要果断地说不的时辰。When others infuse you with a concept that you don’t agree with, you can choose not to take over. There is no need to make concessions step by step and beg for everything. When you understand what you hate to eat, you can choose not to compromise, and there is no need to welcome the people. Lose yourself. Some people will feel that this is a fuss, but it is so wonderful to me, because it can stretch one's own soul, in front of things that one does not agree with, and do not like, this is sacred and inviolable, and we must be decisive. When to say no.。
In the afternoon of the same day, I went to the Atomic City, the place where China's two bomb manufacturing experiments were successful. I went to Jinyintan grassland to enjoy and experience Wang Luobin's song "in that remote place".F！医品护花高手李长安赵柔曼女村长的逍遥神医 徐方郑秀兰 女村长的贴身医生 逍遥小村医 逍遥医师徐方 女村长郑秀兰与 徐方郑秀兰的故事 徐方乔玉小说 徐方和美女村长 徐方天才神医 女村长的逍遥神医 / 乡村布医 逍遥小村医 医道徐方 桃运神医在乡 村 女村长的贴身神医 村医致富经
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消失六年的徐方突然回到家乡，没想到家里住着新上任的女村长。徐方决定帮助女村长发展山村，凭借他过人的手段，原本贫困的山村，逐渐变成了女白领、女明星、女大学生、女警花都想来的富饶之地。
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